Laws are confusing.  I can’t pay a woman to rub my genitals, but I can pay her to rub everything else.  I can pay a woman to get naked and grind on me, but I can’t touch her.  I can pay a woman to have sex with a man, video tape it and sell the video, but I can’t pay her to have sex with me.  Wait, I think I just found a loophole.  Here, hold this video camera and $200 and follow my lead.